A Becoming Dialogue Client recently communicated to me an experience she had applying the Becoming process.  She was having intense Emotional Charges surrounding the way her boss was treating her.  She convinced herself she had to stay with the job because it was difficult for her to believe there was another viable way to make a living.  Her low vibration interactions with her boss started getting more and more frequent.  The bad experiences she was having started affecting her well beyond the walls of her job.

Her boss seemed to take sincere pleasure in demeaning her and playing the employees against each other, but nobody ever called him on his antics.  In the beginning of this past week, he came up to her and completely verbally thrashed a project she had recently completed for a marketing endeavor, calling it incompetent and visually unappealing.  He did this in front of the entire office staff, creating intense feelings of embarrassment and anger within her.  Her old reactions were to allow him to make her feel like a small person, but then complain to anyone who would listen.  She would outright talk about how she thinks this man is such a horrible person and wonders aloud why anyone who treats people with such disrespect could make so much money.

After reading Becoming, she was able to begin acknowledging her boss was simply acting out a role her higher self assigned him to play.  After reading Becoming, she was able to begin acknowledging her boss was simply acting out a role her higher self assigned him to play. She acknowledged her power being demonstrated and started to sincerely appreciate the amazing nature of the appearances that were inundating her attention.  She realized how intense her Emotional Charges and reactions were to this man, and what he reflected about her financial beliefs. 

“Why did I create the illusion of someone demeaning and affecting my beliefs about how money can appear in my life experience?” 

She kept acknowledging her power being demonstrated, but still felt worn down by the way this man treated her.  She was still feeling Emotional Charges surrounding the comments her boss made last week.  She decided after taking a moment to acknowledge her power that she was going to confront him on the hurtful words he expressed in front of everyone.  He tried to talk around her telling him how negatively she was affected by the things he said.  Relentlessly, she continued acknowledging her power, without any agenda or intention for a particular outcome.  Relentlessly, she continued acknowledging her power, without any agenda or intention for a particular outcome. 

He continued projecting blame for what he called “a horrible project” on her.  She quit and walked out, not even stopping to collect her belongings from her desk.

She told me that as she was leaving, never in her life had she ever felt so empowered.  Realizing that she no longer had a job, more intense Emotional Charges flowed through her.  She CHOSE to acknowledge her power, rather than react and grow the bubble of limitation she used to feed by believing the illusion of limitation.

She turned off her phone.  She didn’t use the computer to check her email.  Instead, she went on a walk, went shopping for good food at the grocery store, and enjoyed the experience of expanding into her power.  Soon, she wasn’t even thinking about the CHOICE she made to walk away from her livelihood. 

The next morning she turned on her computer and checked her email.  In her inbox was a letter from her former boss offering her an apology, going so far as to admit he enjoys jabbing at his employees and thriving off the drama he creates.  He also admitted he liked her project, but was reacting to other circumstances in his life and decided to feel better by making her his victim.  He offered her a raise to come back.  Interestingly enough, the next email she looked at came from the owner of another company offering her a job as their head of internet marketing.  She felt compelled to pursue that position and ended up being offered three times the financial exchange of energy she had been making for the last fifteen years.  She took the position and hasn’t responded to her former boss, nor did she express any desire to do so.

Upon accepting this new job, she continued acknowledging her power and expanding deeper into her Unlimited Natural State.  She also realized for the first time that to reveal the organic changes I talk about in Becoming, she must step into the Emotional Charges as she feels them. She also realized for the first time that to reveal the organic changes I talk about in Becoming, she must step into the Emotional Charges as she feels them. She felt magic.  Why?  Because this man she had known for years never took responsibility for anything he said or did.  By her CHOOSING to embrace her power, he acted in ways nobody had every seen before, going so far as to offer up information about how he purposely attacks people for his own pleasure. 

In the last 48 hours, the way she once perceived reality had dissolved. 

Indeed, people who appear in your dream act in direct resonance with your courage to acknowledge your power being demonstrated, or give away your power by reacting to circumstances.